Have you ever thought about why rules exist? I’m sure there really are stupid rules, but often, the rules only seem senseless because we don’t understand the reason behind the rule. Appreciation comes from understanding the “why”.

It’s so easy to break a rule if we don’t understand the “why”. Many rules are for protection, guidance, and to make life more enjoyable.

Think about the rules others have established in your life. Think about God’s rules. Take the time to find out why those rules are in place.

What rules have you established for others? Have you communicated the “why” behind your rules?

Understanding often takes the drudgery out of following. In fact, it can lead us to a place of appreciation.

Yes, there are those who abuse their authority and create rules for the wrong reasons, but don’t assume the worst. Take the time to discover the thoughtfulness, concern, and even love behind many of the rules you are asked to follow.

First of all, let me say that most of us have made at least one foolish choice in life. Making a foolish choice doesn’t make you a fool. Ongoing foolish choices over a longer period may be a different story. Even then, you can choose to turn around and be wise.

How is it that we make foolish choices? Is it because we make rash decisions? Could it be that we don’t care what we do? There could be a number of reasons, but the best way to avoid foolish decisions is to allow God to lead you.

If you’re not sure if God is leading you in a situation, then ask Him. He is the best Resource we have, yet; we can easily neglect checking with Him.

Too many people forge ahead, only to regret the consequences. It’s good to remember that God isn’t holding out on us. He wants to lead us into the blessings He has prepared for us.

There’s tired, and then there’s dog-tired. When we collapse with exhaustion, we may have pushed too far. When that happens, it’s a sign we need to change something in our lives.

What’s tiring you out? What’s stressing you? Have you over-committed? Do you have too much on your plate? Are you avoiding something? Are you looking after yourself? Are there underlying health issues? These are all questions you should consider.

Finding balance in every area of life can be challenging, but the rewards are well worth the effort. Without asking the important questions, we can travel down the road to burnout.

Little changes lead to bigger changes; whether the changes are good or bad. Make sure the changes you are making in your life are moving you in the direction you want to go.

Sometimes, it’s better to slow down than to risk not making it to the end of the journey.